Article of the Week: You’re 16. You’re a Pedophile… by Luke Malone
If I have to summarize the article, it will say something like this:
Pedophilia is an illness before being an offence. If we could treat the illness, ideally before it results in offence, wouldn’t we create a safer society for our children?
Not all pedophiles, that is,
an individual who “over a period of at least six months” has “recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children.” This person also has to have “acted on these sexual urges, or the sexual urges or fantasies cause marked distress or interpersonal difficulty,” and be “at least age 16 years and at least five years older than the child or children” involved.
abuse children. Not all those who abuse children are pedophiles; many of them are opportunity offenders.
What we have to realize that many pedophiles, that is people who are sexually attracted towards children, often against their better judgement, have nowhere to go. The taboo and legal disclosure requirements are so strong, that most therapists also either do not know how to or cannot handle treating pedophiles. Many pedophiles find themselves in a situation where if they seek help, they might be ostracized or punished even without having hurt anyone.
So, society comes into picture only after an offence has been committed, in the form of viewing child pornography or an actual abuse. And then we have strict laws to punish the offender. Problem? Deed is done. A child has been harmed. In most cases, there have been multiple victims because abuse has gone undetected for years.
We do really need a more proactive approach by helping pedophiles before they become offenders. They need a place to go, they need help in managing their condition!
The article has many stories, of pedophiles who are supporting each other so that they don’t hurt anyone.
An upfront warning – it is deeply disturbing. But let’s not be ostriches. The problem is real.
Read the complete article on Medium.
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